Making lists and keeping score are really bad things to do in a relationship. In an argument, they get used as ammunition – “Well, you did X last Thursday.” They often have little to do with the original complaint, so the initial skirmish rapidly becomes an entire battlefront, and the one with the longest list and the surest aim will win. The original grievance may get lost amongst all the collateral damage. Read more in our latest blog post and leave a comment on the page. We also wrote a separate guest post on this topic at Digital Romance:
