In order to experience the kind of peace filled and passionate relationships we describe, it is necessary to go through a transformation. But what do we mean by this kind of transformation and how do you get there?
It is an experience that, however subtly, actually
changes your viewpoint. Unlike many methods that involve extended processes, it is experienced as happening quickly, almost instantaneously, and creates a sense of something totally new. It seems magical in its essence of “now you do it, now you don’t.” We are not really speaking of magic, however, but something which is more familiar to most of us than we think.
You’ve surely had the
experience of puzzling over a crossword clue, then suddenly getting it – and after that, it’s obvious and stays obvious. You can’t erase the letters and forget the answer.
