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How Sexuality Can Unify Body, Mind and Spirit

Sex is an important part of our relationship, but we haven’t written about it much, as it is both transcendent and elusive.

We see sexual encounters as lying on a spectrum from two people having separate sexual experiences together to a full union. The former is about self-pleasure, a form of masturbation where your partner is a sex aid. The latter enters the realm of the mystical, the spiritual.

Through the exercise of love we are able to combine our expanded nature and experience both an intact individuality and a merged self. When Phil and I come together in this union, it is both well known and totally surprising! It is transportive. I am both there as a separate person observing the experience, and completely immersed in the joining.

To reach this place of union where the two of us become one...
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In this week's blog, we wrote about how sexuality can unify body, mind and spirit. Here are some articles commenting about different aspects of this topic.

5 Signs You're In A Highly Sacred Relationship "On some level, every relationship is sacred as it holds opportunity for us to grow. However, there's something distinct about the intimate relationship shared by lovers. Our partners are not defined by genetics or familial bonds. We're not necessarily thrown into proximity by way of work or school environments. We choose willingly to enter into relationship with them. In addition, there's the added component of physical intimacy. Here are five characteristics of healthy, sacred relationships:"

Spiritual Sex: Ecstatic Love Beyond The Physical "I’m not at all pessimistic about the possibilities of lasting sexual love, but I do believe we are looking in all the wrong places. We cannot mandate thrilling, connected sexual encounters and just because one is married and “should” be having lots of fulfilling sex, doesn’t make it so. The fact is we do not have any idea just how deep and all encompassing sex can be because we are stuck with a model of sex that I call, “The Performance Model: Sex equals intercourse”: the goal of sex is orgasm, and great sex is a virtuoso performance."

Why Sex is Sacred? "Our language suggests that once upon a time, Western Civilization understood the sacred nature of sex. This wisdom was lost during the Inquisition, in fact, one might say that this was the purpose of the Inquisition: To create a cultural shift from sex as sacred to sex as sinful, as the movie, Dangerous Beauty, beautifully demonstrates. Now it is time to return to the ancient wisdom of worshipping life rather than death. Or as we said in the sixties, 'Make love, not war.'"


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