Successful Relationships Reading Corner
This week, we wrote about how to remove tension and find peace in your relationships. These writers offer a number of ways (Eleven! Seven!) to do just that.
Signs that Stress May Be Affecting Your Relationship “The effects of stress on your relationship can be easily overlooked, allowing larger problems to arise. Knowing the warning signs can help keep you and your relationship healthy. Stress is an unavoidable part of life and can come from many sources. Work, finances, and family are all common areas for stress to arise. In times of emotional stress, we try to find ways to cope and move on. But coping with stress doesn’t mean eliminating it. Learning to effectively manage stress is important. Over time, stress can impact several aspects of your life and health, including your relationship.”
Love, factually: 11 tips to reduce relationship stress “You might know your love language, but do you know your ‘stress language’? Upward of 93% of human communication is nonverbal. Body language, facial expressions, auditory sounds and written communication methods can all convey stress without a word having been spoken. ‘If I come home after a long, stressful day of work and I am avoiding conversation and am not able to verbalize that stress, I am still communicating my stress in other ways,’ Randall said. The key is understanding how you communicate your stress and how your partner communicates their stress to facilitate effective communication despite any differences between these ‘stress languages’.”
7 ways to manage relationship stress “When you have a disagreement with someone, what do you do? Do you tend to ignore the problem or avoid the person? Do you confront them right away? Do you look for compromise? Everyone approaches conflict differently. When addressing conflict, it can be helpful to know your own style as well as your roommate or family member’s style. Knowing how you both address conflict can help you find common ground and navigate where your styles may clash.”