It’s Important to Know That All Relationships Matter

It’s Important to Know That All Relationships Matter

One reader’s comment to our blog recently was “Every relationship matters.” This is really what it all comes down to. There is an important link between our relationship with ourselves, our relationship with our partner, and our relationships to all others.

There is also great power to affect the world through the actions we share with our partners and intimate relationships. Maude had a conversation with a friend who was recounting a couple she knows that are so loving with each other that she said of them “They are an incredible couple and it rubs off on everyone around them!”

We often speak of couples relationships and how you can live in true peace and love within these relationships. At the core of that experience is how this can change not only your own experience but the world we live in. We can spread peace one relationship at a time by being living examples of what peace is, and how it is shared through relationships.

Learning to honor and respect the individuality of our partners and intimates teaches us to understand that we can celebrate difference, that it enriches our experiences and does not threaten or diminish us. In the greater context of society, this is expressed in an understanding of our commonality rather than our difference. Peace blossoms from the acceptance of the balance between the individual and the society, and this comes from the understanding that society is nothing more nor less than a collection of relationships with known and unknown persons. This balance arises from our mutual connection, from the deepest understanding that we are all related, and that the actions of the one, affect the whole.

Spread peace one relationship at a time by being living examples of peace in your relationships Click To TweetWestern culture has a strong focus on the individual, and nowhere more so than in America. We end up seeing ourselves as separate, and hence alone, and hence lonely. The cure for that is connection, and it is much easier to let that happen when you admit the idea we are also all connected. Yes, also, because both things are true at once. We are uncomfortable holding these two contradictory positions because the mind wants to fit everything into separate boxes, but we are inextricably connected to our family by DNA; to each other by sharing, caring and working together; and to the world with every breath, taking oxygen and giving carbon dioxide.

Think of these as the answers to two different questions: who are we and what are we. Think also of these as two different ways of looking: do you see differences or do you see similarities? Both exist, but relationships are about what you have in common. When you start seeing people, whether your partner or a stranger, in those terms, then you can be a part of healing the divisions in the world.

As you work on your known relationships and become more and more conscious of living in love and peace, you become, in a very real sense, an agent for peace in the world.

“You think you are working on yourself and your relationship, and indeed you are. But there is another unexpected component that arises from this work. Practicing peace in your relationship has results that affect more than just the two of you. Firstly, it influences other people by example. Secondly, you start treating others the same way. It ripples out into the world and, by showing what is possible, inspires people to be their best. The direct experience of peace, and the calm yet ecstatic sense of joy and love that arise from this state, is catching and very powerful. Let’s go forth and change the world!” How Two: Have a Successful Relationship

So we ask you to join us in practicing peace in your relationships. Every relationship matters!

Tell your friends!

6 Comments on “It’s Important to Know That All Relationships Matter

  1. Love that quote “Spread peace one relationship at a time by being living examples of peace in your relationships.” Everyone should strive for this.

    • Thank you Lidy, That is our theme and the message we share in our books and blogs. We really appreciate you recognizing its significance. 🙂
      with love
      Maude

  2. As a contented single person, I love when you dwell on the “ every relationship matters” and “we are all inextricably linked “ themes. I don’t have the exclusion factor I feel when you expound on couples. That’s not to devalue your important sharing and tips on enriching partnerships!?

    • Hi Nomada,
      Thank you for sharing your experience. In general, almost everything we share in our blogs can be applied to all relationship. Glad you can relate to this topic.
      wishing you the best
      Maude

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    Karen Greenfield: Wonderful post! Beautiful ideas, beautifully expressed. Thank you.

    • Hi Karen,
      Thank you so much for your feedback. It is always gratifying as a writer to hear that what you are writing strikes a chord with someone.

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