Wholeness
Tonight you’re visiting friends and staying over. The wonderful thing about this night away from you …
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Compatibility
The idea that shared interests make a couple compatible is very common: What Mr. Godla shared …
Two sides of Criticism
Criticism is like an arrow: the sender only sees feathers, but the recipient sees a sharp …
Is Conflict Inevitable in Relationships?
We’ve been reading “Why Marriages Succeed or Fail” by John Gottman. After studying hundreds of couples, …
Chance or Choice?
Sometimes I think that we put out such a strong message of how well we relate …
Learning to Be Together
We were talking last night, as we often do, about the ease between us. Whether going …
Union Mystifies Me
After all this time I am still mystified about union. There are many clues that our …
A Prerequisite of Our Process
We wrote about our process without explaining the basis on which it rests. That basis is …
New Video Out
We made another video about the book, but it didn’t feel quite right, so I left …
Not everyone who is married is a difficult spouse
Psychology Today ran an article “Are You with the Right Mate?” which has much sage advice …
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