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How to Find Peaceful Solutions Without Giving Anything Up

Phil and Maude Jul 27, 2025 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Peaceful relationships

After last week’s post, There’s Only One Side in Peaceful Relationships—the Same Side, we thought we’d …

Phil and Maude Jun 15, 2025 Tagged with Differences, Mutuality

Hi, Phil and Maude here. Every week, we sit down and talk until we hit on …

Phil and Maude Jun 11, 2023 Tagged with Fairness, Kindness

We have a process of exploring our wants and suggesting alternatives, and in this way, we…

Phil and Maude Aug 21, 2022 Tagged with Mutual solutions

The other day we sat down to restart a conversation about planning for the future and …

Phil and Maude May 9, 2021 Tagged with Conflict-free relating, Mutual solutions

We wrote last week about why core values are so important and that when you and …

Phil and Maude Nov 15, 2020 Tagged with Mutuality

MAUDE: The cornerstone of peaceful conflict-free relating is the practice of mutuality: the certainty that it …

Phil and Maude Mar 8, 2020 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Mutuality

PHIL: One view of relationships is that they have a competitive element. They trade in currencies …

Phil and Maude Jul 15, 2018

We’re coming up to fourteen years together, and it’s still such an easy relationship. That’s because …

Phil and Maude Dec 3, 2017 Tagged with Conflict-free relating, Differences, Mutual solutions

This morning we were at our local breakfast nook working on blog topics. We each shared …

Phil and Maude Aug 20, 2023 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Peaceful relationships

This week, we wrote about how to find peace and harmony in your relationship through mutual…