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Tag: Keeping score

Avoid Making Lists and Keeping Score in Your Relationships

Phil and Maude Aug 23, 2020 Tagged with Balance, Keeping score, Making lists
Avoid Making Lists and Keeping Score in Your Relationships

This week Phil had a medical procedure. He needed a Covid-19 test early in the week, so we had to quarantine. It was so hot that we took our walks very early in the morning when few people were on …

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Why You Need to Avoid Keeping Score in Your Relationship

Phil and Maude Oct 27, 2019 Tagged with Keeping score, Making lists
Why You Need to Avoid Keeping Score in Your Relationship

MAUDE: In last week’s blog we discussed differences and how they can be strengths rather than problems in a relationship. In further exploring that topic together, we looked at the style of relating where making lists and keeping score is …

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He’s Making a List and Checking it Twice

Phil and Maude Dec 18, 2016 Tagged with Keeping score, Making lists
He’s Making a List and Checking it Twice

Everybody wants to have a sense of fairness in their relationship, and many people do this by what we call making lists and keeping score. Maybe you take turns to make dinner, but sometimes your partner is busy and you …

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