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How to Make the Differences in your Relationship be Assets

By Maude Posted on October 20, 2019 Posted in Relationship differences, Relationships, Successful Relating Tagged with Differences
How to Make the Differences in your Relationship be Assets

Life has been particularly full and interesting lately. We’ve been working (and playing) to create and shape the workshop that we are offering in a few weeks. As is often the case when we create something together, we are also …

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In Your Relationship, What You See Is What You Look At

By Maude Posted on September 1, 2019 Posted in Core Values, Relationships, Successful Relating Tagged with Reframing
In Your Relationship, What You See Is What You Look At

The other day we were discussing a concept from psychology professor and neuroscientist Dr. Lisa Barrett’s work that basically states that “the part of the brain responsible for sight, the visual cortex, receives only 10% of its connections from the …

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In Your Relationships, Worry is not Love

By Maude Posted on December 9, 2018 Posted in Love, Relationships Tagged with Fear, Worry
In Your Relationships, Worry is not Love

Yesterday was a day full of insight and contradiction. I got a text from a friend who had apparently reached out to me a number of times without getting a response. She said, “I haven’t heard back and I’m worried.” …

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Phil and Maude’s Friday Feature: Surrender Yourself to the Relationship

By Maude Posted on October 19, 2018 Posted in Friday Feature, Relationships
Phil and Maude’s Friday Feature: Surrender Yourself to the Relationship

This week, we’re pleased to share with you a guest post by Bruce Kirkpatrick. We think you’ll enjoy his slant on relationships. The word surrender often gets a bad rap. Surrender can be what you do when you are defeated—like …

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The Challenge of Accepting My Partner’s Approach to Illness

By Maude Posted on August 19, 2018 Posted in Our Process, Relationships Tagged with Acceptance, Health
The Challenge of Accepting My Partner’s Approach to Illness

Hi, Maude here. I’ve been facing some challenges to our usually very easy practice of total acceptance in this last period of time. What is this issue that has been so difficult for me? Healthcare and how Phil and I …

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Be Creative With Your Relationship Problems

By Maude Posted on October 15, 2017 Posted in Our Process, Peace, Relationships
Be Creative With Your Relationship Problems

We are often asked if we don’t really fight, sometimes at least; if there aren’t times and places where we compromise to get peace in our relationship or yield to our partner to make them feel good. They ask “No …

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Why Intimacy is Important in Relationships

By Maude Posted on September 17, 2017 Posted in Relationships Tagged with Intimacy
Why Intimacy is Important in Relationships

In viewing our relationship and from interviews with successful couples, one of the areas we have found to be of universal importance is intimacy. It is a basic need of people, so they seek or are in a relationship as …

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The Importance of Belief and Intention in Relationships

By Maude Posted on July 2, 2017 Posted in Relationships Tagged with Belief, Intention, Peaceful relationships
The Importance of Belief and Intention in Relationships

We were recently asked during a podcast interview what factors are important to starting a new kind of relationship, one in which peace reigns and fighting and arguments are absent. Great question, and our first answer is always that you …

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You Can’t Talk and Listen at the Same Time

By Maude Posted on February 21, 2016 Posted in Relationships, Successful Relating Tagged with Listening, Talking
You Can’t Talk and Listen at the Same Time

We’re often asked how we write our blogs together. We create two separate drafts and then merge them. If they’re complementary, we interleave them; if they’re saying the same thing, we blend them. But sometimes they’re both so distinct that …

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Fun Valentine Contest — Create a Relationship Quote

By Maude Posted on February 6, 2016 Posted in Announcement, Love Tagged with Romance
Fun Valentine Contest — Create a Relationship Quote

Here’s our Valentine invitation: be creative! Send us an original relationship quote for this photo. The winner will receive a signed print copy of our book “How Two: Have a Successful Relationship” and the entry will be featured in our newsletter …

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