Phil and Maude

How Being Defended Stops You From Being Close in Your Relationships

Phil and Maude Feb 5, 2023

If you’re defended, you can’t get closer than a certain distance from another person. This isn’t…

Phil and Maude Jan 29, 2023 Tagged with Presence

PHIL: A dear friend has been badly shaken by the loss of her cat of 15 …

Phil and Maude Jan 22, 2023 Tagged with Belief, Intention

PHIL: The phrase “belief and intention” is a good description of how we relate. We believe …

Phil and Maude Jan 8, 2023 Tagged with Differences

MAUDE: As we write this first blog of the new year, we are posing the question …

Phil and Maude Dec 25, 2022

As we said last week, our basic theme is sharing ways to create and practice peaceful …

Phil and Maude Dec 18, 2022

MAUDE: Our basic theme is sharing ways to create and practice peaceful relating. We believe that …

Phil and Maude Dec 11, 2022 Tagged with Intention, Mutual solutions

It was probably the way we planned for our wedding that first drew our attention to …

Phil and Maude Dec 4, 2022 Tagged with Balance, Fairness, Trust

PHIL: We’ve been talking about how important fairness is in relationships. It is about treating the …

Phil and Maude Nov 27, 2022 Tagged with Peaceful relationships

We are continuing to work through some complex decisions about wills, trusts and finances, and are …

Phil and Maude Nov 20, 2022 Tagged with Appreciation, Gratitude

PHIL: I’m from England, which doesn’t have Thanksgiving, yet I have taken to it as my …