How Are You Committed to Behaving in Your Relationships?
We are completely undefended with each other because we both know that neither of us is…
Author: Phil and Maude
Why You Need a Balance of Being and Doing in Your Relationships
Doing is not the opposite of being; doing is activity, and it is when activity ceases…
How You Can Come From the Positive and Feel Contented in Your Relationships
The path to contentment is to have the same feelings for others that you want for…
Why the Essence of Connection in Your Relationships is Being Present
An element that permeates our relationship is that when we are together we are fully present…
Why it is Important to be Real With Each Other in Your Relationships
At their core, all deep relationships are an opportunity to be real with each other; both…
Musings on the Anniversary of our Meeting
We share our direct experience of a peaceful harmonious relationship with the hopes that it will…
How Balancing Work, Play and Hanging Out Benefits Your Relationship
Fill your life with many forms of play mixed into the fabric of your relationships. The…
How Do Presence and Acceptance Add to Your Relationships?
To be truly present you must acknowledge what is and accept what is. The moment you…
How Being Defended Stops You From Being Close in Your Relationships
If you’re defended, you can’t get closer than a certain distance from another person. This isn’t…
What Important Secrets Can We Learn From Animals About Relationships?
PHIL: A dear friend has been badly shaken by the loss of her cat of 15 …
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