Phil and Maude

How to Talk Turkey Together This Thanksgiving

Phil and Maude Nov 20, 2016

The only way in which a human being can make some approach to knowing the whole …

Phil and Maude Nov 18, 2016 Tagged with IDWP

I Declare World Peace; a site for peace

Lawrence Gelber is one of those people who puts his thoughts for peace into action, and …

Phil and Maude Nov 13, 2016 Tagged with Conflict-free relating, Presence

A student asked, “When times of great difficulty visit us, how should we meet them?” The teacher …

Phil and Maude Nov 6, 2016 Tagged with Acceptance

Lynelle Paulick has a radio show on the local UCSB station on Tuesdays at noon and …

Phil and Maude Nov 6, 2016

You find the car has a flat tire just as you’re about to leave for a …

Phil and Maude Oct 30, 2016 Tagged with Differences

Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are …

Phil and Maude Oct 23, 2016 Tagged with Acceptance, Drama

Drama, an all too familiar word in many relationships. “I can’t keep on with this relationship …

Phil and Maude Oct 16, 2016 Tagged with Our Process

Can you avoid conflict in your relationship? Absolutely! And we don’t mean avoid as in ducking …

Phil and Maude Oct 9, 2016 Tagged with Acceptance, Anniversary, Sacred Space

For our 9th wedding anniversary we rented an Airbnb in the California Sierra mountains. We were …

Phil and Maude Oct 2, 2016 Tagged with Personal space

Both of us have lived in intentional communities and one of the rules in both of …