I’m Me and You are You!
Excerpt from “Secrets of a Successful Relationship Revealed” pgs. 18 – 19 “I’d like to try to break down some of the qualities that seem so important to how we are with each other. One factor that seems critical is …
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Individuality Within a Relationship
One of the key characteristics of our relationship is a deep respect for the separate individuality of the other person. We both have a very strong sense of our identities. Neither of us would be comfortable letting go of or …
No Thumbtacks: the 100% Factor
We’re excited because our new article was just published. It’s based on a chapter from our book Secrets of a Successful Relationship Revealed. We hope you’ll feel free to republish or share this with any friends who you think may …
The 100% Factor: The Transformative Moment in a Relationship
There are many factors to success in a relationship. Is there a critical moment, an event, a choice that makes things work? We have found that there is just such a transformative moment. In our relationship, our move towards this …
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How to Make Joint Decisions Without Conflict
How do you and your partner handle decision-making and problem-solving? For most people, these activities are often a source of tension and conflict, rather than an opportunity for a creative experience together. These sessions frequently feel like duels over who …
Belated Happy New Year
We made a Happy New Year video — it’s not too late for our wishes to work: We also started tweeting as @PhilAndMaude, so follow us and say Hi.