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The Secret to Agreement is Creating Something Neither of You Imagined

Phil and Maude Mar 8, 2026 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Peaceful relationships
The Secret to Agreement is Creating Something Neither of You Imagined

PHIL: When you’re making plans or looking for solutions, how do you come to agreement? You …

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How To Deal With The Bumps You Encounter In Your Relationships

Phil and Maude Aug 17, 2025 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Openness, Trust
How To Deal With The Bumps You Encounter In Your Relationships

MAUDE: The path toward peaceful relationships is not filled with continuous agreement or having the same …

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The Five Fundamentals of Peaceful Relationships

Phil and Maude Mar 10, 2024 Tagged with Acceptance, Core values, Differences, Individuality, Individuality and Relationship, Mutual solutions, Peaceful relationships
The Five Fundamentals of Peaceful Relationships

For the last few weeks, we have been writing about subtle aspects of peaceful relationships. It …

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Don’t interrupt! I’m talking! How to Keep the Peace in Relationships

Phil and Maude Sep 3, 2023 Tagged with Communication, Listening
Don’t interrupt! I’m talking! How to Keep the Peace in Relationships

We do well with deep listening and lack of interruptions when consciously working to solve something.…

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How To Find a Mutual Solution In Your Relationships With Our Process

Phil and Maude Jun 11, 2023 Tagged with Fairness, Kindness
How To Find a Mutual Solution In Your Relationships With Our Process

We have a process of exploring our wants and suggesting alternatives, and in this way, we…

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Musings on the Anniversary of our Meeting

Phil and Maude Feb 26, 2023 Tagged with Mutual solutions, Peaceful relationships
Musings on the Anniversary of our Meeting

We share our direct experience of a peaceful harmonious relationship with the hopes that it will…

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How You Make Decisions and Find Mutual Solutions is a Pattern for Your Relationships

Phil and Maude Dec 11, 2022 Tagged with Intention, Mutual solutions
How You Make Decisions and Find Mutual Solutions is a Pattern for Your Relationships

It was probably the way we planned for our wedding that first drew our attention to …

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Why It’s Important to Find the Essence at the Heart of Your Relationships

Phil and Maude Nov 27, 2022 Tagged with Peaceful relationships
Why It’s Important to Find the Essence at the Heart of Your Relationships

We are continuing to work through some complex decisions about wills, trusts and finances, and are …

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How Your Relationships Can Be a Dynamic Force for Spreading Peace

Phil and Maude Oct 16, 2022
How Your Relationships Can Be a Dynamic Force for Spreading Peace

MAUDE: Our world is filled with violence, war, and divisive forces striving to drive us apart …

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How to Work Out Solutions for Differing Needs in Your Relationship

Phil and Maude Aug 21, 2022 Tagged with Mutual solutions
How to Work Out Solutions for Differing Needs in Your Relationship

The other day we sat down to restart a conversation about planning for the future and …

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