Reading Corner

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This week, we said that respect is a small word with big importance in relationships. Here are some writers expounding on different aspects of respect.

The Need for Mutual Respect in a Relationship “Many factors contribute to a long-term relationship’s viability: for example, net equal contributions to the relationship, reasonable emotional stability, and similar sexual appetite. But maybe most important is mutual respect. That facilitates so much in a relationship:”

The Importance of Mutual Respect in a Relationship “A successful relationship is built on many things – love, trust, communication and mutual respect. Yet, it is no secret that mutual respect is a fundamental cornerstone that plays a significant role in determining the longevity and success of any relationship. It is undoubtedly the foundation upon which all other aspects of a relationship can be built. In this article, we will delve deeper into the concept of mutual respect, its importance, the role it plays in building trust and the different ways it can impact a relationship.”

Importance of Respect In A Relationship “What is the importance of respect in a relationship then? Why should partners respect each other? While love is an important aspect and the reason why two individuals enter into a relationship, respect is the key that binds them together. It makes for a strong foundation for a relationship. Here, we list 5 reasons why respect is important for a relationship to survive:”

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This week, we wrote about why relationships last, and named acceptance, acknowledgment, and appreciation as the prime factors. Here are some articles discussing their importance.

The Importance of Appreciation in a Relationship “I feel, as human beings, we constantly crave for positive attention. And appreciating someone is the best way to go about doing it. The problem starts when we don’t even notice how we slipped into the habit of taking each other for granted and stopped caring for, and appreciating each other. This leads to other problems – arguments, frustration, resentment and suddenly we begin to wonder if this relationship is meant to work out.”

The Five Keys to Mindful Loving “In his book, How To Be An Adult in Relationships, David Richo talks about the Five A’s that help relationships flourish and deepen into real fulfillment. Too often, we don’t really ask ourselves, “What do I really want in my relationships?” Usually we know what we don’t want or don’t like, but that doesn’t help lead us in the right direction. Richo’s Five A’s are: Attention, Acceptance, Appreciation, Affection, and Allowing.”

The Importance of Acknowledgement: How It Impacts Relationships, Work, and Communication “We all crave recognition and validation for our efforts, achievements, and contributions. Acknowledgement plays a crucial role in our lives, influencing our sense of self-worth and overall well-being. Whether it’s in personal relationships, professional settings, or everyday conversations, understanding why acknowledgement matters can transform the way we connect with others.”

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This week, we wrote that spreading peace requires being peaceful. Here are some articles on attaining inner peace and how that can impact the greater community.

Inner Peace Is The Key For World Peace “Inner peace is the key for world peace. You cannot have world peace with individuals who are boiling from the inside ready to explode. If such people are at the helm of affairs then not only the person explodes, but the countries and communities explode.”

Inner Peace as a Contribution to Human Flourishing: A New Scale Developed from Ancient Wisdom “Although philosophers and theologians have emphasized the centrality of inner peace for the good life, this concept has not generally been included in research on human flourishing. The authors argue that inner peace contributes to a more complete form of flourishing for both religious and secular people.”

Basic Meditation Technique for Inner Peace “The sharing of loving kindness is something we can do every day, both before and after daily meditation. A brief period before meditating softens and broadens our minds. The sharing of loving kindness as such helps improve our meditation experience. Sharing loving kindness after meditation spreads the purity of our meditated minds throughout ourselves first, then subsequently towards others.”

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This week, we asked how you can delight in the differences in your relationships. Here are some articles discussing different aspects of this topic.

Why You Should Embrace the Differences In Your Marriage “Having differing opinions, unique interests and your own individual tastes makes your partnership that much greater! Your differences help maintain balance in your home and turns the two of you into a powerhouse couple. The key to making this work is embracing your differences. And recognizing their ability to do good things for your marriage and your family.”

Rebuilding Emotional Safety: How to Accept Differences in a Relationship “In addition to using soft start-ups and practicing fair fighting, another effective tool to establish a healthy emotional environment and safety within a relationship is accepting your partner for who they are. When stress is high or conflict is prominent, it can be easy to criticize your partner or point out their flaws. However, for long-term relationship success, the practice of acceptance and accepting your partner for all that they are promotes understanding, respect, and relationship success.”

How To Embrace Individuality And Authenticity In Marriage “Authenticity in relationships means being true to yourself and expressing your honest feelings and thoughts. It means being truly yourself. Being vulnerable and creating a safe space for open communication. Authenticity builds trust and connection more than pretending or wearing mythical masks. In any marriage, you’ll find differences that make each partner unique. These differences aren’t obstacles but opportunities for growth and understanding.”

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This week, we said that you have the power to spread peace in all your relationships. Here is some practical advice on how to do that.

4 Small Ways to Spread Peace for a Better World “World peace just won’t happen until we grow inner peace on an individual level. One person at a time. If you want to start building a better, kinder world from the inside out, here are four small ways to spread peace every single day. It’s the best place to start. One of the best ways to spread peace in the world is to recognize your own capacity to bring peace into the little things you do every day.”

How to Find Inner Peace and Happiness in the Chaos “Inner peace is possible, and you don’t need to meditate on a mountaintop or break the bank for a wellness retreat in order to find it. Carving out time to relax is wonderful, but it’s amid the frantic pace of everyday life when we need serenity the most.”

The Dalai Lama’s Lessons on How to Build Peace “Violence leads to more violence, if you want to build, you must be committed to non-violence. Only through compassion and inner peace, can one spread peace in the world. Inner peace leads to a peaceful individual and then this peaceful individual can build a peaceful family, then a peaceful community, then a peaceful world.”