PHIL: We have plenty in common, but also plenty of differences. How we connect socially. What …
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PHIL: We continually ask ourselves how we live so peacefully. We know that we do; the …
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PHIL: I want to talk this week about how we perceive the world. That might sound …
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MAUDE: When I first came to Santa Barbara, over forty years ago, my husband (at the …
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PHIL: So, another birthday ran into me and Maude deluged me with cards, in one of …