How to Avoid Contention in Your Relationships
Understanding how to create peaceful relationships is a whole process that takes a re-calibration from instinctual…
How to Grow Trust in Your Relationships
PHIL: When you sit down on a chair, you trust that it won’t collapse under you. …
Acceptance in Your Relationships Involves Listening to More Than the Words
Often people think that acceptance is agreeing with a person on their descriptions of things, but…
How Balance and Peace are Intertwined in Your Relationships
A sense of balance is an important element in peaceful relationships. When you notice something is…
How Free Will and Choice Enhance Your Relationships
Make a choice. When your reactions aren’t in line with your choice for how to be…
What is it That Makes For an Easy Relationship?
When events arise that involve both of us, whether pleasurable or complicated, we never find ourselves…
How to Transform Your Relationship by Reaching Total Acceptance
Total acceptance can feel like a totally unattainable goal. Yet, we know from direct experience that…
How to Train for a Better Relationship
Being present with each other is something which happens almost automatically in excursions Phil and I…
In Your Relationships, It’s Less What You Talk About Than How You Talk About It
After Maude returned from a trip, we both described how we had adored the sense of…
We’ve Written About Relationships Every Week for 15 Years — Here’s What it Did for Us
We’ve been writing a post each week for 15 years, and the starting point has always…